Perils of internet dating
By Rachel Grunwell
4:00AM Sunday Jun 07, 2009
A widow became the victim of what's thought to be New Zealand's biggest internet dating scam after losing $680,000 in a little over 10 weeks.
The North Island businesswoman said she felt destroyed and violated by the experience and wants to remain anonymous for fear of public humiliation.
She agreed to tell her story to stop other lonely Kiwis falling victim and said her nightmare began when she created a profile on match.com on March 12.
Soon after she received a message from a man claiming to be an orphan widower with no family. He replied: "I want to develop a friendship that will hopefully turn into something meaningful and lasting."
For two weeks he phoned her up to three times a day, chatted online and quickly told her he loved her.
The man said he was an American-born geologist who lived in New Zealand but was overseas on business.
"It was like a cloud of love, attention and affection that had engulfed me," the woman said. "I left myself wide open, I was in love."
On March 26, he told her he was bringing millions of dollars-worth of gemstones back to New Zealand but said the documents verifying them as genuine had been stolen.
He asked for $5000 to cover the cost of replacing the documents and the next day said he needed $7000 more.
On March 30, he said he needed extra money to get home, and wanted to buy the woman a Gucci bag as a thank you. He sent a link for the bags so she could choose a colour.
Over the next two months he requested various amounts, the largest being $320,000 which he needed to get his passport back from Hong Kong Customs. He told her he had been pulled up on his way back to New Zealand and asked why he didn't have paperwork for the gems.
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