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Rob
16 June 2006, 23:54
Member Super_spurs has kindly agreed to let me repost his story. It is about a typical 419scam and the impact it had on him and his family. Thank you super_spurs!

Hi all.

I'm new here, but wish I'd seen this site 2 years ago, when I was drawn into a scam in the Ivory Coast and, as a consequence, am in debt to the tune of £68,000 (a mere £975 per month for the next 10 years should see it paid off :cry: )

With hindsight, just HOW many times was I taken for a fool ? I'm disgusted with myself for being so naive, but once you have paid even smaller amounts, it is hard to walk away and I made myself believe that things would come through (I'd never heard of these scams at the time, so why shouldn't I?).

Unfortunately, every time I paid another 'instalment' towards Bank Costs and administration, it would then be taxes and backhanders to bent bank officials to sign off the paperwork, and so the list went on.

Believe me, these thieving *******s were clever. EVERY payment was the final payment (yeah, yeah), until the next little hiccup occurred along the way and just that LITLE bit MORE was needed to finalise the procedure. Always through Western Union and always untraceable (so I found out afterwards).

Eventually, 'my fund' was transferred to a Candian Bank, who were actually contactable via both Web and telephone and then I started to believe the fund was mine. It was in MY NAME and had the full balance transferred into it. However, it 'appears' the Ivory Cost had transferred the money without paying any of the taxes and the account was 'frozen' pending clearance of these tax debts (only £45,000 !!!). I had it in writing on the Bank's Headed Paper that it was only the outstanding Tax Clearance payment that was preventing me from withdrawing my money. So, totally stupid gullible idiot that I was, I persuaded my mum to take out more Bank Loans to cover these expenses and duly sent them off.

CONGRATULATIONS on opening your new account letters arrived from Canada, with my account details and (rather nice) bank balance showing on them. Hooray I thought (after dancing round the living room with my 3 kids, shouting I'm Rich, I'm Rich !!) at last I can settle all the debts and start to change my life for the better ! I even logged into the Canadian Bank Account and, sure enough, there was the healthy balance just waiting for me to get my hands on ! Still doubtful to a certain degree, I decided to try transferring some of the money (£70,000) to various UK accounts and it instantly showed on the Canadian Account as being withdrawn and transferred to those UK Banks !! Way Hay, I thought - this is it - all that expense and I can now pay it back. If I didn't get my hands on another penny, at least the loans and credit cards would now be paid off. I checked with my UK Banks as to whether the money was due to arrive - they even stated they were in the pipeline !

Alas, however, within 48 hours of the money appearing in Canada, the account was frozen by the authorities who stated The Ivory Coast had broken the transfer rules by sending the money to Canada. All they required was the fine to be paid (a further £75,000 and the tax on the transfer, which was about another £25,000). But guess who was meant to pay it ? Yes, muggins here, who was already £68,000 in debt. By this time, both my mum and I had borrowed to the hilt and were up to our eyeballs in ever-spiralling debt (and, three years on, still are and look to be for approximtely the next 10 years). Even the UK transfers were re-called and never made it !

I was at this point I was made bankrupt and lost my house, my car, my pensions and everything else in my name they could seize. This, however, only cleared the the most minor of debts. There was nothing left on the sale of the house or car, but I guess it did free me from the burden of one £10000 loan. Unfortunately, the rest of the finance was in my mum's name and it still that £58,000 we are struggling to pay off.

It is even harder, as my mum daren't tell me dad she has so many debts, as it will end their 60 year marriage. Instead she is having to work full-time still at the age of 68, to try to make a dent in these loans. I am struggling to help her, as I had a nervous breakdown and find it difficult to shake of the resulting depression and can't find work, because I can barely cope to get through each week intact.

This is not a sob story - but a true one and should be taken as A WARNING to anyone else who feels these things are an easy way to make money. They are, indeed, but for the SCAMMERS, not the likes of you and I.

In short, I lost £68,000 (£58,000 of which still needs to be paid back), I am now Bankrupt, living in Rented Accommodation, suffer from severe depression, following a total mental breakdown and live from hand to mouth.

IS IT WORTH ALL THAT TO YOU TOO ?????? I sincerely hope not !

If I have posted this on the wrong part of the site, please accept my apologies. I just wanted people to know it DOES happen and it DOES RUIN LIVES !

With thanks

Super_Spurs

FW Admin
17 June 2006, 00:14
Thank you Rob for posting this... to you, Super_spurs, I really don't have the words to express my feelings about what this has done to you and your family. I can only imagine the heartache, the pain and the sorrow that you must still be going through after this horrific ordeal.

I would really like to make this a little more visible, and with your permission, would like to place this within its own article block on our website portal. I shall await this from you before taking any further action.

Welcome to FraudWatchers, and I am personally choked that it should be under these exceptionally difficult circumstances.

Aeval
17 June 2006, 00:27
Super_spurs,

I take my hat off to you for having the courage to share this kind of a very personal story with us. Altough I have corresponded with many victims of those scams, reading the account of your ordeal was nothing short of heart wrenching to me.

By sharing your story with us, you have achieved two very important things.

First and foremost, any victim support person who reads this will be all the more motivated to make sure that other people do not go through the same thing as you did.

Secondly, should you agree for us to give your story a little bit more publicity, potential victims will be able to read it. I'm sure that the message you are sending will be as powerful to them as it was to us.

Although you have joined FraudWatchers under very exigent cirsumstances, I do hope that you stay with us and maybe find some solace in knowing that your experience may save other people from falling into the same trap.

breccia
17 June 2006, 09:52
Super_Spurs, welcome to our site.

Your story is truly upsetting and demonstrates just how heartless these criminals are, lest anyone out there be in any doubt.

The first thing I want to say to you is that what has happened is in NO way your fault. You did NOT invite random criminals on the internet to defraud you, or asked to be scammed. There is NO excuse for what these internet criminals do to people. NO EXCUSE. EVER.

Super_Spurs, your story illustrates just how vicious and merciless these scammers really are. I commend you on finding the courage to post your story. Voicing what has happened to you will help many others out there to come to terms with what has happened to them, or what may be happening to them right now, and will definitely help people who visit this site looking for information. I really hope that you find the time to visit this site whenever you feel up to it, to help us in our fight to raise public awareness about this nasty form of fraud.

I know it was probably very difficult to tell your story, so I sincerely thank you and commend you for taking this positive step to help others.

Big Al
17 June 2006, 10:24
Hi Super_spurs, welcome and thank you for having the courage to post your story, i hope it helps you to know that you are not alone and have many friends here who are concerned enough about these scammers to do something about them! your story is unfortunately not a rare one, please do not feel as though you have done anything wrong!! the fault is only with the crooks who stole from you, it is normal to want to help your family and friends to a better life and is easy to believe what these proffessional con men say, they have many years of doing this and have spent a lot of time in perfecting it! sometimes the more genuine and trusting in your fellow man you are the easier it is to believe them. and this is what they work on!! i know that at the moment things seem bleak, but i feel that you can rise above this and look forward to a good life in the future. when you are on the bottom the only way to go is up!! rest assured that i for one will do my best to make the scammers lives hell, and i am not alone in this! when i read something like your story it only makes me more determined to sort the scammers out! thank you again,it takes a lot of guts to say what you have said,and i am confidant you will overcome this!! if i can be of any help please do not hesitate to pm me ! you WILL be successful again " BIG AL ";)

Mara Jenden
12 July 2006, 06:56
Hi Super Spurs

I, myself am new to this online fraudwatchers website. I only registered an hour ago and already am amazed by your story. I can't imagine the feeling and loss you went throught however what I can relate to is the sheer joy and exileration of that moment when you thought you were going to be rich even if that thought lasted for a few moments, that feeling at that time felt soooo....good. Unfortunatley it's that kind of feelng that our predators target.

I believe you're going to be OK. You're going to get throught this. With the help of your family, friends, support from fraudwatchers and other counselling measures your journey towards healing yourslf will take time but you will eventually heal and be a much stronger, loving caring individual for it.

Take care
Mara